Like peas in a pod…or not

Which aspects do you think makes a person unique?

We all agree, I reckon that it’s our genetic make-up, our DNA, that is the mother of our uniqueness?

After that, it’s pretty much the wildwest-I was going to say where do we start? But I guess the beginning is a good place as any.

We were created by and from two souls who brought a whole bunch of baggage to the table.

Our upbringing and could on the surface be similar to a sibling, but there will be differences from the off. And dont forget, identical twins will have different fingerprints.

The conditioning that is absorbed and that rejected. An inane sense of self may begin quite young. There again, maybe sometimes that never develops.

Does a child feel supported, guided, safe, and loved? Is it well fed and nourished in all ways every single child should? Everything that happens around them will affect their way of looking at the world. Or do they look the other way in denial, shutting down their developing brains for safe keeping?

Personal life experiences, triumphs, failures,challenges,perspectives, perceptions, values, beliefs, morals, passions, natural abilities, goals,authenticity, and  choice? It all has an effect.

Our ability or inability to express ourselves with so many varying communication styles. Or unable to at all, causing innumerable issues.

Where does self-reliance and strength of character become a thing?

When/how is an honest or dishonest person formed?

What makes a human being kind, open, friendly, and compassionate?

Why are some folk cold, hard, remote?

What makes us unique is a topic worthy of a thesis. Methinks

How complex.

I hear you

If you could have something named after you, what would it be?

The building would not have my name, but a nod in a way, to someone from my past or present, whom I hold in my heart.

A space where people can go to be heard.  Be listened to.

Men, women, elderly, young, I think there are probably many who would welcome being able to slip into a hub and speak freely, without interruption or judgement. And be able to leave feeling lighter, less burdened.

I miss the laughter

What makes you laugh?

A while back, I pretty much gave up all the Socials, and I’ve found that I really do miss the things that made me laugh whilst scrolling. Usually, it was animals doing crazy things. Cats v dogs are always funny. Not so funny for the dogs, though, as they generally come out worse.

Years back, I lived and worked overseas, and together with one workmate/close friend,Mary, we would often find ourselves falling about laughing. I loved it, and I miss those days.

In fact, as I write my blog piece this morning, I can clearly see that I need to bring some joy back into my life. Oh dear, poor me, lol.

Edit. What I have failed to add is that there is a lovely blog here on WP. They often post jokes, which never fail to make me smile. Thank you

http://www.issuesthatmatterdotblog.com

I must add Eric, too. His take on the world and his way with words invariably  makes me smile

http://www.ericfoltin.com

The Lost Generation

When you were five, what did you want to be when you grew up?

The Lost Generation are those born between 1830-1900 and include Ernest Hemmingway, F.Scott Fitzgerald, T.S Elliot and Eleanor Roosevelt.

Currently, we are at Generation Beta. Those born between 2025-2029

A.A.Milne, the creator of Winnie the Pooh wrote for adults too. Today’s DP brought this little poem to mind. There is also a book of the same name. ‘Now We are Six.

When I was One,
I had just begun.
When I was Two,
I was nearly new.
When I was Three
I was hardly me.
When I was Four,
I was not much more.
When I was Five,
I was just alive.
But now I am Six,
I’m as clever as clever,
So I think I’ll be six now for ever and ever.

A.A.Milne (1886-1956)

The following poem The Lost Generation was published in his book Behind the Lines, in 1940

YOU were the Lost Generation, decadent, nerveless, slack,

(Bom to the sound of the guns and of death dropping down from the air) ;

You slouched to your casual dates with a languorous curve to your back.

And we didn’t admire your manners, and loathed the length of your hair.

We stood in front of the fire-place and eased our stiffening hocks

(Wc who had fought in Flanders, we who had flown in France)

And damned the whole generation — you and your girlish locks ! —

Poor effeminate creatures, boys who had had no chance.

We pitied you more than blamed you ; what could you hope to be.

Born to the fear of war by frightened women, and then

Living your life with women whose men were over the sea ?

Taught to be men by women — how could you grow to be men ?

Youth of the Lost Generation, sons of the men that were.

Taught to be men by women who made you all that you are.


How could you grow to be men, who have grown to be gods of the Air,

Who have set in the skies for our nerving a flame of Faith like a star ?

Each night we crouch by the fire-place, and listen with tight-held breath,

Humbled to tears in wonder, strengthened to tears in pride,

As the Youth which we dared to pity makes casual date with Death,


“And, fired by a spirit we know not, goes off on its deathless ride.
With which salute to brave men I close. It is June now ; one of those lovely, still, country evenings, blue and green and golden ; such an evening as almost compels faith in the doubting, courage in the fearful, by the calm and steadfast assurance of its beauty. Italy is in the war. France has fallen. Well, we are alone. Much will have happened before these words are in print, but, be it good or ill, may we live and die as gallantly as those happy few, upheld by something of their spirit.”


Behind the Lines was a collection of poems written during the first nine months of World War II, serving as a sort of diary of the war’s early days. The poem “The Lost Generation” specifically praises the generation that was “raised by women” and made fun of during WWI, but went on to fight during WWII.

Don’t wish to unnerve you, but

What’s something most people don’t understand?

Okay WP, I have given this DP some thought and have decided to change the word Understand  for Remember.

I think maybe peeps really don’t often remember that they have no idea what may be coming around the corner. How their lives can totally change in a split second. Perhaps it’s a positive thing that they forget sometimes, else they may exist in a constant state of dread or hope. Neither a healthy option.

But around that corner could be many things. Are you ready?

A Brave New World

How has technology changed your job?

Err, WP, heads up! You are presuming everyone has a job?

Personally, I can say the digital era has enhanced my existence. I love it. Technology per se is a challenge, though.

One of my brothers gave up his career as a talented professional photographer when ‘film’ went digital, and everyone suddenly had a camera.

My other brother was ahead of his time he would have embraced the progress. Pity he did not live long enough to see it.

Not my brothers, simply a cute pic

Palantir’s billionaire CEO says only two kinds of people will succeed in the AI era: trade workers — ‘or you’re neurodivergent’

Billionaire Alex Karp tells Gen Z to skip elite college degrees, as one-fifth of Fortune 500 companies recruit more neurodivergent talent by 2027. https://fortune.com/2026/03/24/palantir-ceo-alex-karp-two-people-successful-in-ai-era-vocational-skills-neurodivergence-gen-z-career-advice/?utm_source=native_share&utm_medium=mobile&utm_campaign=share_test

Just Say No!

How often do you say “no” to things that would interfere with your goals?

1982, in the US, as part of the ‘War on Drugs Campaign, led by Namcy Reagan,’ the term ‘ Just Say No’ was coined. Sadly, researchers view it as having being ‘ too simplistic’ ( no weight?) and deem it unsuccessful.

My favourite First Lady by far is Eleanor Roosevelt. ( The longest ever serving FL-12 years)  A prolific writer, speaker, and activist for human rights. She encouraged self empowerment. What a woman!

Do one thing every day that scares you.” She said.

Understanding that stepping out of your comfort zone builds character and resilience.

The bronze statue of Eleanor Roosevelt stands in West Potomac Park, Washington D.C.

Over the years, I have read many quotes attributed to her. I love this one…

The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams”

Making sense of it all

What’s a secret skill or ability you have or wish you had?

A bit late to the table today with my offering. And it will be about Patch. Of course it will!

I once wrote about it being possible for him to communicate with me, so I could learn about his previous troubled life. And why, after 5+ years he gets really cross with me sometimes.

There have only been two other people I could tell he really didn’t like. In hindsight, he was spot on. It’s only me now he takes out his frustrations on.

On holiday in Cornwall, on the steps of our Shepherds Hut. He sits for the longest time, just taking it all in.

For today’s prompt, I would like the ability to sense what he does. Depending on which data you follow its estimated they have 100-300 million olfactory sensors, whist human have between 5-6 mil.

This means that dogs have a lot going on when they are out and about. I always notice when other dogs are not allowed to stop and smell the roses. With their people just walking them. I get it folk don’t always have the time to let their canine companions inspect every blade of grass. But to them it is everything.