A couple of pigeon holes there. A reminder not to judge, not to try and classify someone so quickly, easily, foolishly.

Folk tend to big themselves up on how good a judge of character they are, don’t they? Not me, I was always rubbish at it. To the extent I gave up altogether and then wondered what took me so long.

Have you not thought to yourself once in a while over the years ‘ oh, she seems nice’ or ‘ I don’t like him’ only to realise a day, month or eons later she wasn’t quite so pleasant as you once thought and he was a nice guy, a good egg?